My daughter's dear friend lost her mother suddenly last week. She was at a loss for to do for the family. She asked if I thought sending some comfort food to California would be feasible. So I sent her the card and she plans to send some of your wonderful comfort for west! A tradition my kids have seen me do over time is when a person close to our family dies I typically make a big Italian dinner. It has always been well received. My daughter Corrina is taking up the tradition!! Make it nice!